What to do and what to think......

I used to pride myself on being a very understanding person. I also always thought that, when you are in a relationship, you can say anything and have everything out in the open. But once again I find myself feeling betrayed and wanting answers. Why cant men just tell you the things that they know you will take hard. They always think that their partners will get 'Funny' if they let them know what is going on in their life. But instead, men don't say anything and you find out their 'secret' when they arn't even around and you immediately think the worst. Its Pathetic. Just Speak. Woman can do alot of things but we cant read minds and we don't know what is going on when you don't say anything. For god sake, if you think to yourself "Maybe she might not like what I am doing" then talk to her so she get the chance to understand what is happening. Or if you think to yourself "If she sees this she might get the wrong idea" then tell us so we don't start thinking to ourselves that your not happy, or that we get the feeling that we want to leave and get out of a ridiculas situation.
I can stand for alot. I mean, in a relationship I can understand things that most people cant. But if your other half, who says that they love you and only you, is sitting there watching a woman talk about sex with her tits half hanging out or a tart that thinks she knows what advice to give in the bedroom, then in my opinion you are not really all that happy and you should just leave. If you cant talk to your partner about your sex life then you are in trouble anyway.
My own number one sin in any relationship is cheating. No matter the kind of cheating, whether its physical, emotional or mental, it is still cheating. In my opinion, even when men, or woman, look at a erotic mag or website, it is desiring something or someone else. THAT'S CHEATING!!!!
You know what..... good luck to all the woman that are OK with their boyfriends/husbands getting aroused or getting their rocks off by looking at other woman have sex or lying on a bed with their legs spread and with no respect for themselves. But I am not on of those woman. If you love her then be only with her and only desire her. If you need to see other woman in the way that you want to see the one you love then your not really wanting the one you love.

Be honest people......